Online Dating for Girlfags at Consonance (Gleichklang)
Girlfags are gay women. Using our special approach, we enable effective online dating and partner search for Girlfags and other rare relationship structures at Consonance (Gleichklang).
In this detailed article, various queer concepts are explained. The implications for partner search are shown. Here you will also find explanations of the term Girlfag or gay woman and how we at Consonance (Gleichklang) facilitate partner search for Girlfags or gay women.
What Are Girlfags?
Girlfags are gay women who typically also identify as women and are sexually and romantically interested in gay men. In their fantasies, desires, and longings, they see themselves as a gay woman taking on the role of a gay man. Girlfags are interested in gay sexuality. They can particularly empathize with gay men and would like to be sexually and romantically involved with them.
Girlfags essentially retain their female identity. However, they experience themselves in the role of a gay man. It may also be that Girlfags do not exclusively define themselves as binary women, but rather as non-binary or as demigirls.
Often, for gay women or Girlfags, bisexual men are also an option, as they have experience with gay people and also have “gay aspects.” Polyamorous relationships, for example, with one Girlfag and two gay men, can also be attractive for Girlfags.
In some Girlfags, their interest in gay men manifests as a transition to a male trans identity. However, this is not the norm. Girlfags are mostly cis women, i.e., people who were born anatomically female and also identify with this. However, there are also trans women and demigirls among Girlfags.
The counterpart to Girlfags are Guydykes, i.e., lesbian men, whose online dating and partner search we also support at Consonance (Gleichklang).
Partner Search for Girlfags at Consonance (Gleichklang)
The partner search for Girlfags is difficult, but not impossible. There are bisexual men, but also some gay men who enter into relationships with Girlfags.
At Consonance (Gleichklang), we support online dating for Girlfags by allowing them to search for bisexual men. They can also specify when searching for a man that they would prefer or require him to be same-sex oriented. Finally, we advise gay women to present their particular experience in the appropriate places in their dating profile in the free self-description section.
Search Strategies for Girlfags at Consonance (Gleichklang)
Specify that you are looking for a man, and in the later specifications, indicate that the partner must be homosexual or bisexual. Suggestions will only occur occasionally, but what we see is that this is how partnerships between gay women and gay or bisexual men actually develop.
Acceptance and Visibility for Gay Women at Consonance (Gleichklang)
Girlfags and gay women impressively demonstrate how diverse human sexual and romantic desire can be. This phenomenon makes visible that identity, fantasy, and relationship patterns are not one-dimensional, but can combine in surprising and unique ways.
Girlfags represent a psychologically valid experience that arises from the complex interaction of gender aspects, sexual and romantic orientations:
- At Consonance (Gleichklang), we value taking all people seriously in their experience and identification and supporting them as effectively as possible in their partner search.
Girlfags or gay women thus have the prospect in our partner search of finding the gay or bisexual man with whom they can have a sexual-romantic relationship.
This is a rare search. The partner search for Girlfags can therefore take a long time even at Consonance (Gleichklang). But with patience and openness, Girlfags have a chance to fulfill their longing here and win one or two gay or bisexual men at their side.
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