Psychology Blog on Dating and Relationships
“In a world where superficial knowledge counts more than insight, you should not be alone, but develop together.”
Advice Blog on Dating
In our Consonance (Gleichklang) blog, we publish weekly articles on relationship psychology, partnership, love, and relationships from a psychological perspective.
The blog articles present findings from psychological and sociological studies, as well as evaluations of the dating behavior of Consonance (Gleichklang) members. The focus of the blog is on providing advice for relationship search. The articles address topics raised by our members in their communication with the team.
Beyond direct exchange with a team member, these blog articles enable you to engage with issues relevant to you and your relationship search, reflect on them, gain new perspectives, and thereby optimize the effectiveness of your online dating or friendship search, as well as other aspects of your life design.
The blog covers the entire spectrum of relationship psychology. It deals with factors that make relationships happy or unhappy and highlights what each individual can do to make their relationships sustainable and stable.
Considerable space is given to the area of online dating, covering all topics from profile creation and online communication to the first meeting and relationship building.
Hot topics such as love scammers, ghosting, disappointments at the first meeting, lack of responses, or toxic relationships are addressed with psychological depth.
The blog allows you to orient yourself in your online dating and apply the right strategies to bring your online dating to the desired success. As foundational articles, we particularly recommend the “Guide to Successful Online Dating”. Another key article is “Learning Patience Means Learning Love and Happiness“. Especially if you have been single for a long time or are even an Absolute Beginner without relationship experience, you will also benefit from the “Options for Action for Long-Term Singles“. In addition, this article shows you how to reduce or deal with possible fears or concerns about the first meeting outside the internet. The article “Online Dating Is Not an Application” addresses central aspects of the basic attitude that are of great importance for effective online dating. Finally, the article “Compatibility Between Outer Attraction and Matching Life Concepts” shows how the foundation for a lasting relationship can truly be created.
Using the search function in the blog, you will find relevant articles on almost all topics of online dating. From our regular member surveys, we know that the blog articles are read regularly by many members and are experienced as important support. If members have questions for their own online dating or friendship search arising from these articles, they can contact the team at any time to receive answers and effective support.
The Consonance (Gleichklang) blog is part of our concept of comprehensive support for effective online dating and friendship search.
The blog is written by our co-founder and psychologist Guido F. Gebauer, who has also written a comprehensive analysis of the entire field of online dating, from its beginning to maintaining a found relationship, in his advice book “A Perfect Match? Online Dating from a Psychological Perspective“. In addition to being available as a printed book, this psychological analysis of online dating is also available as a free knowledge resource at Consonance (Gleichklang).
We recommend that all members with open questions regarding their relationship search read this guide, which concisely answers most of the questions, problems, and difficulties that members have brought to us over the years. It is also possible to schedule a personal coaching appointment with the author.