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BDSM matchmakingOnline Dating with BDSM

Consonance (Gleichklang) also specifically supports members with BDSM preferences in their partner search. The term BDSM or SM, as used by Consonance (Gleichklang), refers to practices that, on the basis of equal interest and mutual consent and voluntariness, playfully practice aspects of dominance and submission.

In this sense, about 10% of the population has a BDSM preference. Correspondingly implemented mutual BDSM preferences.

BDSM preferences included by Consonance (Gleichklang) involve a playful experiential background based on love and mutual respect. In this way, valuable and lasting relationships with high emotional connection are created at Consonance (Gleichklang) with mutually matching BDSM preferences:

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Psychological Matchmaking and Online Dating with BDSM

To enable effective matchmaking for people with SM preferences, every member of Consonance (Gleichklang) is asked whether they would like to meet a member with BDSM preferences. Furthermore, they are asked whether the other members should take on the submissive, dominant, or a mixed role (switcher). On the basis of the responses, we then match the exact compatibility using our specialized dating system. The matchmaking serves to build a long-term partnership in which mutual SM wishes can be realized on a mature and communal relationship basis.Partner search with BDSM

Consonance (Gleichklang) decided to include BDSM characteristics in the matchmaking because this wish was brought to us by many members and we simultaneously found that the serious partner search not exclusively focused on sexual practices is often particularly difficult for people with BDSM preferences. We therefore consider the inclusion of BDSM preferences as a contribution to making it easier for the not insignificant number of people with this preference orientation to build satisfying and stable partnerships.

To our knowledge, we are currently the only reputable matchmaking agency on a psychological basis that matches BDSM contacts that are intended to lead to stable partnership relationships. Consonance (Gleichklang) is not an SM forum and accordingly it is not primarily or even exclusively about matching sexual contacts at Consonance (Gleichklang). Rather, Consonance (Gleichklang) supports, among other things, people with BDSM preferences in finding a permanently satisfying life partnership.

Principles of Online Dating at Consonance (Gleichklang)

In BDSM partner search, the same basic principles apply at Consonance (Gleichklang) as in any other partner search:

  • The matchmaking is inclusive, value-based, and explicitly recognizes different sexual orientations and gender. BDSM is understood at Consonance (Gleichklang) as a sex-positive, consensual form of relationship design based on mutual respect and appreciation.

In online dating at Consonance (Gleichklang), members with BDSM preferences can openly and protectedly indicate which role and which form of relationship they are seeking. This information serves to establish compatibility early on and avoid misunderstandings or boundary violations.

In matchmaking, BDSM preferences are psychologically categorized and matched with other personality, attachment, and value characteristics.

The goal is a long-term partner search in which emotional closeness, shared life visions, and sexual compatibility come together on a mature, equal basis. In this sense, we will also bring your partner search with existing BDSM preferences to a successful conclusion:

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